Teresa revealed that when she confronted her husband about having an unborn child, he brought another lady with him and claimed she was his third wife.
She revealed her experiences according to standard media,
“We met in campus and fell in love. By the time I was graduating, I was already a mother. We moved in together and later got married” she told Standard Media
“With a bright future ahead of us, we worked hard to realise our goals. My husband landed a good job in one of the government institutions, and this saw us move from Kawangare slum where were living in a shanty mabati house to a gated estate. That wasn’t all, we were able to own a few cars also, and this changed my husband.
“By the time we were moving houses, my hubby and I had agreed that I would stay home to look after the baby until a later age so this meant that I had to leave my job until she was enrolled in school.”
she continued; “I don’t know if it was money or my husband had concealed his character while we were struggling. The moment money checked in, he drastically changed. The man who used to come home early would come back past midnight and drunk,”
“I tried as much as I could but there was absolutely no concrete reason,” she stated.
“In that process of on and off, I one day overheard him making an inquiry on the phone about a CT scan or ultrasound. At the time I wasn’t pregnant or planning to be. So I got curious and wanted to know for whom the scan was being organised.
“I tried snooping in his phone but I got caught and received an unforgettable slap. That didn’t deter me, I went ahead and started making inquiries from his close friends and relatives but no one could open up and tell me what I wanted to know, I just got scanty information. So with less evidence to tie him down, I decided to keep on inquiring.
“Luckily for me, he organised a come-together bash for family and friends in our house. During the event, one of his friends’ girlfriends asked how comfortable I was with a co-wife. I got curious about her question and I wanted to get a clear line.
Theresa stated that one of his friends girlfriend ask her about coping with a co-wife.
“When I asked her to expound, she just brushed me off and told me to inquire from her relative. Eager to get the details, I approached her cousin and he confirmed.”
“I was furious! When I confronted him, surprisingly he didn’t deny it. we escalated the matter to his parents and surprisingly his parents firmly told me that polygamy is allowed in their community and if I felt uncomfortable, I was free to walk away and let those who are ready step in. At the meeting, he also brought another woman whom he introduced as his third wife.
“I felt like the world had fallen on me. I couldn’t even contemplate anything other than separation. Immediately we returned from the village, I picked a few of my items and called it quits.
“Starting from scratch wasn’t that easy. I sank into depression, which almost cut short my life. I tried to commit su*cide thrice before I was rescued and taken to a counsellor,”
She stated that, it took her almost a year for her to recover from her ordeal.
“I think almost a year. I really struggled to move on, especially when I reflected on the hurdles we faced before succeeding. But I thank God I’m now okay and able to share without feeling hurt.”
Theresa counseled other ladies to prioritize their mental health over all other considerations during relationships.
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