Tope Alabi Talks About Her Unfulfilled Relationships Before Marriage Says “4 Men Stylishly Left”
Tope Alabi, a Nigerian gospel singer, has talked candidly about her past unsuccessful romances prior to her current union.
The singer of “Oore Ti O Common” described on Instagram the unpleasant and perplexing trend she encountered with suitors when she was a young lady.
Alabi disclosed that a peculiar and depressing cycle started when she reached adulthood and the point at which she had to present a spouse to her parents.
In her words;
“When I became an adult and it was getting to a stage that I need to take men to meet my parents, something strange always come up. The men will just tell me they need to go pray about it and afterward they will no longer reach out to me,”
The 54-year-old composer of music revealed that spiritual justification was frequently used to justify the rejection.
On one occasion, the singer disclosed, an intermediary told her that a suitor had sought advice from prophets and decided not to pursue a relationship with her.
She continued, saying “at least four men stylishly left” her in this way.
“One of our intermediaries at a time told me that one of the men have gone to meet prophets who told him I was not okay to be married to,” she said.
“Would you tell me to stop appreciating God whenever I remember that? How did I now do it that I eventually got married? I can count like four men that stylishly left me.
“Eventually, I met a man. I met the man through my boss at my workplace. The man promised to marry me. And I told him that is how all men do. I told him to go and ask about the relationship.”
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